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A Few Goals Of Mine

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My senior year of college is about to start and that means there’s a lot of things for me to do. So today, I thought I’d share them with you. Some are academic, some personal, and some are little things I’d like to have in my life.

  1. Adopt a dog. Preferably a beagle because every time I see one, my heart melts. Of course every dog is adorable and perfect but there’s something about beagles. I want to adopt one, but not a puppy. One a little older or maybe a senior. I guess it depends on how I feel at the time and who’s the perfect match.
  2. Work on my current relationship. We’ve been distant more with him working at a bar and going to bed when I wake up and him waking up right before work. Don’t get to see him much and it’s been very hard on me.
  3. Apply for an internship or find volunteer opportunities to help build my experience to become a geriatric counselor. I was considering on working in Hospice care or working for a crisis hotline.
  4. Work on relationships with my friends. I feel like I don’t have any. At least, the kind I should have. I feel close with two that I went to school with and ones I work with. However, everyone is splitting apart and moving. Which scares me.
  5. Try to be more outgoing. I’m kind of a negative person. I complain a lot and it’s changed my relationships in ways I wish it hadn’t. I’m always seen as the shy girl and I HATE IT. Makes me feel small and terrible in side.

There you have it! I tried to get a little personal but then again not too personal. I guess lately I’m feeling more vulnerable and nervous on who’s reading my posts. Anyways, do you have any goals right now?Screen Shot 2017-07-16 at 11.34.27 PM

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11 thoughts on “A Few Goals Of Mine

  1. I feel you on number 5, I tend to be kind of nagative too in real life, and would definitely like to change that.😄 Thanks though for sharing your goals, they were very interesting!

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  2. Beagles are beautiful dogs, and getting an older one may be wise. Beagles are energetic and can be trained, but they need a lot of patience, and consistent training. I’m sorry your relationship right now is distant, I know what that’s like. See if you two have any time during the week you can share. 🙂 Thinking of you!

    I understand about the friendships!!! I’ve moved multiple times, and it’s like every new friendship I gain, I lose it when I move somewhere else. I still talk to people, but it’s definitely not like before. I’ll be living in this new area I’ve moved to for at least the next two years, so again, I have no friendships at the moment in which I can easily socialize face to face. If you ever need to chat or rant, I have a twitter 🙂

    People often have misjudged my character and personality when they first met me. Misunderstanding me for shy and the type of introvert I am. For many years, I always tried to change my ways a little bit, adjusting to people. But after someone really tried to push me into ways I just wasn’t, I finally realized I was truly happy and ok with who I am. By that time, I had worked on communication and being honest with myself and others, I still work on it, but it’s come a lot easier. You may not need to change a whole about yourself to feel more satisfied and confident, and that’s okay. It may just be one or two things to consider and start on. Take it one day, one problem at a time. Thinking about your feelings and thoughts you have before speaking. Find the core of where they come from. That’s what I’ve found that helps me.

    Hope you don’t mind my long comment. I do feel like I connect to you on a lot of different things, and I definitely don’t want you feeling alone or confused. 🙂

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